Jigarthandaa
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Hey Everyone,
I just got me registered here, Nice to see this initiative!
This Thread is to get opinions from the readers on the topic , Life and Success(not sure if anyone gona read this Lol).
I will penn down what I am trying to get as response from you all.
Life! You born, you live, you die,,
Being here is not our choice, to die is also not our choice. But in between comes the Life, we can do anything with it. Or I think we can do anything with it.
Because mostly we are not doing what we really want to do, we are pushed, being compelled, bullied sometimes Lol, friends and family emotions and situations, being poor and etcetera (but I think being lazy is the biggest of em all(Im one)).
So People define Success differently!
Few say success is to become a Filthy Rich Person, few say Success is to get you a Identity, few say its to get a lambhorgini, others say success is to marry the one whom you fell for, to follow dreams, saints say its inner happiness!
HumanBeing when he/she grows up has different needs at different ages. Its playtoys and Mom when you are a baby, as you grow up u need chocolate and the food that you like and the channels that you watch, the games you play, the friend and comes the love, money, degreee, work, car, home, loyal spouse, Lol.( wait lets keep this aside and see what Maslow says)
Yes, Maslow, this crazy guy is a psychologist who proposed a theory on Needs. Many of us would hav read this on books.
First One - Basic Needs - To live, water , air , shelter, clothes(thats made into basic need becuz of Adam and Eve)
Second - Safety and security(like job, health)
Third - love and belonging( friendship, family, sex)
Fourth - Self Esteem( confidence, to get an unique identity, achievement, other's respect)
Fifth - Self Actualization(Old Rajini in Muthu film, Buddha aftr enlightenment)Lol, that's wanting morality, acceptance, these are the higher grounds! Like purpose of life, experience, things like that!!!
So, aftr Success comes this self actualization on Maslow's pyramid , he proposed that this theory is common for all the human beings! Which Im not sure about(maybe he never considered Indians and especially Indian home makers, Lol we can point out many contradictions).
But what if a young guy is on the top level already skipping all those steps proposed by Maslow?
Without Success as defined by our society, can a person realise life's meaning? Like most of the saints in India, monks( mutrum thurandhavargal).
AR Rahman said in a recent interview that he was a person with Low Self Esteem before his Debut RoJa. Thats Success for him! It made him a normal person and he reached the levels of Oscar because he was no longer the guy before RojA!
Yess , Higher Self Esteem is Really important to make things work!!
Life and Success, canT a humanbeing live like an animal? Like doing anything it wants, after all we are animals too, But society pushes us, We need to be Crazy and muscle enough to lead a dream life which U want!
But whatever you do, will society pull u back, like the Eddy vedder song on society??
Guys and Girls, I kno I hav blabbered but this is a Deep topic and Im amateur, I have left so much for you all to speak on!
Please right anything and everything whatever you feel on this topic, Life and Success,, needs, society or whatever!
My friend is calling me now, Gtg, lets keep this as a live thread,, we can talk more!
Excuse me guys and girls , Im writing for the frst time!!
ThankYou For your Time!
I just got me registered here, Nice to see this initiative!
This Thread is to get opinions from the readers on the topic , Life and Success(not sure if anyone gona read this Lol).
I will penn down what I am trying to get as response from you all.
Life! You born, you live, you die,,
Being here is not our choice, to die is also not our choice. But in between comes the Life, we can do anything with it. Or I think we can do anything with it.
Because mostly we are not doing what we really want to do, we are pushed, being compelled, bullied sometimes Lol, friends and family emotions and situations, being poor and etcetera (but I think being lazy is the biggest of em all(Im one)).
So People define Success differently!
Few say success is to become a Filthy Rich Person, few say Success is to get you a Identity, few say its to get a lambhorgini, others say success is to marry the one whom you fell for, to follow dreams, saints say its inner happiness!
HumanBeing when he/she grows up has different needs at different ages. Its playtoys and Mom when you are a baby, as you grow up u need chocolate and the food that you like and the channels that you watch, the games you play, the friend and comes the love, money, degreee, work, car, home, loyal spouse, Lol.( wait lets keep this aside and see what Maslow says)
Yes, Maslow, this crazy guy is a psychologist who proposed a theory on Needs. Many of us would hav read this on books.
First One - Basic Needs - To live, water , air , shelter, clothes(thats made into basic need becuz of Adam and Eve)
Second - Safety and security(like job, health)
Third - love and belonging( friendship, family, sex)
Fourth - Self Esteem( confidence, to get an unique identity, achievement, other's respect)
Fifth - Self Actualization(Old Rajini in Muthu film, Buddha aftr enlightenment)Lol, that's wanting morality, acceptance, these are the higher grounds! Like purpose of life, experience, things like that!!!
So, aftr Success comes this self actualization on Maslow's pyramid , he proposed that this theory is common for all the human beings! Which Im not sure about(maybe he never considered Indians and especially Indian home makers, Lol we can point out many contradictions).
But what if a young guy is on the top level already skipping all those steps proposed by Maslow?
Without Success as defined by our society, can a person realise life's meaning? Like most of the saints in India, monks( mutrum thurandhavargal).
AR Rahman said in a recent interview that he was a person with Low Self Esteem before his Debut RoJa. Thats Success for him! It made him a normal person and he reached the levels of Oscar because he was no longer the guy before RojA!
Yess , Higher Self Esteem is Really important to make things work!!
Life and Success, canT a humanbeing live like an animal? Like doing anything it wants, after all we are animals too, But society pushes us, We need to be Crazy and muscle enough to lead a dream life which U want!
But whatever you do, will society pull u back, like the Eddy vedder song on society??
Guys and Girls, I kno I hav blabbered but this is a Deep topic and Im amateur, I have left so much for you all to speak on!
Please right anything and everything whatever you feel on this topic, Life and Success,, needs, society or whatever!
My friend is calling me now, Gtg, lets keep this as a live thread,, we can talk more!
Excuse me guys and girls , Im writing for the frst time!!
ThankYou For your Time!
I Only agree with point HIGHER SELF-ESTEEEM ......THUMPS UP.... 
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